1. Often self Appears
The old adage says "Familiarity breeds hatred" which is embraced by the people. saying it is not true. in fact just the opposite happened many studies which conclude that the more often agan interact with someone the more he likes agan.
2. Liking each other
Lots of research (lok think use common sense as well) which proves that we tend to like people who also like us. when we know that someone looked at us both, unconsciously motivated to look at people is fun
3. Equation
It is not true that the things that attract the opposite. We actually prefer people who have an interest in common or with us. we may assume someone attractive because he is so different from us. But the real similarities and kebersamaanlah who generate a sense of mutual love
4. Make him comfortable
Agan could have approached him so interested in and liked agan agan, but, how can agan agan make him sympathetic if he was not comfortable around agan. Ever felt how wonderful agan near-full of understanding, sincere, kind and warm? agan and have you ever felt otherwise? for agan Be a good listener, pay attention to him
5. I was only the ordinary people
"Seeing people who you admire Doing Stupid and ridiculous actions will make you more like it. (Aronson, Willerman, Floyd)
Contrary to the views of most people, perfect or always confident does not always bring desired results. Looking like that rarely make you more popular or well-regarded, do something silly or embarrassing (not outrageous) and smile to yourself.
6. Eye gaze
Agan know that someone's eyes can make her fall in love agan? in a special experiment two people who do not know each other's eyes asked each other. This experiment concluded that only in two minutes it can produce awe. Agan direct face-to-eye when talking or listening.
7. Smile
A smile is the universal signal that you are likeable and friendly person. But remember not too many smiles, as if agan smiled at everyone then the ARF will berkesan.tersenyumlah agan smile at people only option.
8. Speech
How to talk agan agan = self-image. so watch what I say and how to talk about it. words and phrases-ungakapan must be clear and can dimengerti.Aspek other is smooth not to stutter
9. Do not Talk about Other People's Poor
agan say whatever will turn around and stick to agan. Description of the properties that we use to characterize someone biasanyaakan associated with us.
10. Ask
Ask for help, Kepa da old friends or new acquaintances can help create or deepen ikatan.Tentu, if a new meet someone, do not borrow money or ask for help to keep your cat. Tapicoba for help to keep your bag for 1 minute, it shows you believe on your friends.
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