Is your life and your partner already has the things that should be possessed remarkable in romantic relationships. Do you still feel the thrill and excitement when you are both passionate kissing? Do you and your partner feels, when the job ends, the office that is felt only fatigue and let alone to have sex (intercourse), for berpelukanpun taste as heavy as a sack of rice loaded.
If so then get rid of old things are often said to people about what is needed to evoke the mood you like first. Leave old things and be prepared to follow simple steps - but specific - to be more filling and memgairahkan sex life you both are starting to erode.
There need not be classical music, do not need to bring wine and roses, there is no need to show the thumb biting and licking your partner or your partner's ear exhale. This exercise is an exercise "sensual touch" for seven weeks, which if followed, proved to increase and to help couples who are stale relationships become more warm and romantic
During the 36 years since I taught this exercise to them, I have witnessed the rise of thousands of marital relationships that are not fresh and tasted stale to be fresh and full of passion again - truly extraordinary.
Before I give these steps more specifically, I wanted to show that the reason most couples it is difficult to combine love and sex is because sex is indeed a sense of extraordinary. At first sex was so exciting that may be frightening because self-distrust, self-reliance and fear of losing a partner. The key is we would have to release these feelings, but also knowing that you can regain control when you want it.
When the drive and sexual desire disappears, such as sexual dysfunction, for example, then this indicates the absence of a strong relationship and control by themselves. And this exercise is a way to help people heal the problem, reconnect with themselves again, and then with a partner. Exercises that will teach takes time and commitment, so you and your spouse must be ready and willing to practice together for seven weeks.
First Sunday
Dice by throwing the coin, the winner has the privilege to start training the first time sensual touch that is a person who is touched. To start this process, the winners have to say, "I want to be touched now." then he must take the couple's hand and pulled her into the bedroom and removed her clothes with the lights on, climbed into bed and get on with the show to couples where she wants to be touched - except the breasts and genitals - with nonverbal signals, such as moving hands partner and pressed down to touch or elusannya harder or vice versa. Couples who should not be touched touched / stroked back and forbidden to have sex at this session. The touch should be focused on what the couple wanted to feel. Try to enjoy both!
This training process must walk about 15 to 45 minutes. When finished the turn and do the same with your spouse.
This process is not the result of the core. Let your feelings rise up as it should, try to focus on what you feel annoyed though at the time and switch to something else. But try to come back to focus with your taste. Avoid feelings of sadness, anger and pain.
Second Sunday
Berlanjutlah with a touch of sensual exercises, but now make sure you do a three-week training session in this second. See how the flavor experience you can have without having to touch the breasts or genitals. Try playing with the feathers, or even playing a touch of the unusual location, such as bathroom, tub or shower.
Do experiment with kissing. Many couples who have left the kiss and move directly to sex. Kissing is an important part of this exercise.
Third Sunday
In the third week of this exercise, you'll go to the third practice session more intimate with a slightly different way. Starting with the previous exercises sensual touch and kissing, but settled with mutual masturbation in front of the couple. This may sound strange at first - like the opposite of intimacy should be wanted for myself-i-sendir but you will find that you both have shared these personal secrets to each other, the closeness you will be deepened. I hear feedback from couples who say that after this exercise, their partners become more real to them.
Fourth Sunday
In the third practice session at the fourth week, include a sensual touch by touch / caress in the breast area but still not on the genitals. This is done until a couple who touched decide when to stop and for the female partner can also show you how to touch her breasts. (Many women let their breasts being touched in a way that does not stimulate, just because they are embarrassed to ask for what they want.
Fifth Sunday
This week, with you and your partner, each one must stand in front of the mirror (both full-body mirror labih). Say what you like about your body with a loud voice. Do not compare your body with other people like Brad Pitt or Sylvester Stalone example.
Then look at your genitals, like a doctor doing a physical examination. Again with a loud voice, describing everything you see. The purpose of this exercise is to make yourself more confident and comfortable with your genitals. When you're done then turn to your spouse do the same thing you are doing this with
Next, start a sensual touch session. Then you can start exploring genitals couples, with the guiding hand of your partner to explore each of his private parts, but the session was conducted only for a moment.
During the second session, learn and feel the stimulus that appears, Let the passionate feelings that arise and sink. You'll get passionate arousal and erection will return again and again. After orgasm, Lead your partner's hand to your genitals, and show what you want after sex.
Sixth Sunday
Began to experiment with variations such as oral sex sex. Now you must realize that the key to expressing intimacy is stating what you need and release your feelings to your partner. To continue practice, but noted that couples who are now allowed to touch the appropriate response is more active in doing what he wanted.
Seventh Sunday
Do not forget to touch all of your partner's body before you touch her genitals. Having done enough of sensual touch, a man should lay flat and the woman should sit on a man's body. Female partner should slowly and gently insert just the tip of his penis into the vagina, do not stay long enough sebnatar only (for 1 -2 minutes). Do not move. Make it as "a good visit." Back do caress. Do not have sex.
Then for the next session, do the same thing, but women should gradually and slowly insert his penis into her. Watch and see how you are slowly joining together of the body.
For the third session now you can do everything you like, try different positions. This is probably the first time you experienced such closeness. Hopefully, the intimacy that you feel now will let you view sexuality as a whole and the new - and interesting light.
Your success in this program by using this article, depending on your motivation and commitment, as well as your ability to control himself in no hurry to orgasm or intercourse. You must learn that you do not activate your spouse feel, but you turn on your sense of your own with your spouse. If you have problems, consider finding a good sex therapist to help you.
