Male "sweet", which looks impossible stuff too, can become peselingkuh. Starting from a small affair until heavy affair that continues to bed! Check the description!
Not that should suspect your spouse. But, like the anecdote "cat presented with salted fish must immediately be struck", who is not tempted if there is someone who is constantly trying to attract our attention.
Because often meet, chat, and confide in each other finally, the affair was more likely to happen. Moreover, when the accident condition with partner relationships, too, was like a dark cloud.
But, of course not mean that the solution is to monitor and interrogate the couple for almost 24 hours. What is important, create a conducive relationship between the two of you, and learn to read the signs jelly possibility of infidelity. That way, betrayal can be stopped immediately, and your relationship is still prevented.
Then, what are the early signs are any indication? Marcella Bakur and Raymon B. Green in their book, 180 Telltale Signs hates Are Cheating and How to Catch Them, revealed 32 emotional signs of someone who was having an affair.
1. He's more attention than usual. This is because he feels guilty about it to you. However, attention was gradually reduced and finally disappeared after the affair deepened.
2. He starts showering you with gifts. Just as the first point, this is done because he felt guilty about betraying you. By giving gifts that he could overcome his guilt.
3. His behavior makes you feel there's something wrong. Trust your instincts. No matter with the same instinct you "blind" themselves from the truth that exists. You're the most known habits, routines, and attitude-behavior daily. So, skeptical when it all changed.
4. He started fishing more often quarrel. This is the reason to be angry and went to meet his mistress. However, it could be done because the feelings were mixed after betraying you.
5. Always discuss the possibility of ending your relationship. Beware if he starts often say, "What do you do if our relationship ended?" or, "If something happens to both of us, I will always love you as a friend." Just so you know, the phrase-supposing it wished because there are others who would gladly accept that your relationship ended.
6. He is like when you're experiencing PMS. He seemed pleased and excited when it will go out of the house alone, and directly lethargic and weak as to be near you.
7. He rarely spoke with you and be "cool" like an ice cube, do not care about your feelings.
8. Musical tastes suddenly changed. Because so more often listen to favorite music with "the girlfriend", he also became involved liked the music.
9. Low self-esteem. Not that then he must have cheated. However, such people generally tend to seek security and positive feedback from others. Well, one way to get it, yes, by cheating!
10. He is constantly criticizing the other person (opposite sex). This is his attempt to make you think that people like that is not her favorite type, even though secretly she was interested.
11. He became more frequent castigation give it to you.
12. Emotions became more easily hooked on your comment, even though a neutral comment.
13. He no longer pays attention to you, children, and family life.
14. He began to like playing "hide and seek" when you are nearby. For example, the Bering once closed the door or walk away while talking on the phone.
15. He never again praise your appearance.
16. He began to stop saying "I love you."
17. He looked uncomfortable or appear to feel guilty when you're doing good things for him.
18. Instead he accuses you who do not have an affair despite strong evidence.
19. He prefers to spend time with friends than with you
20. He began to have no interest in discussing the future of your marriage together.
21. He no longer shows affection to you.
22. He preferred reading or watching television than talking or making love with you.
23. He often talked about the problems experienced by the middle of other people, especially the opposite sex dad.
24. He began to use words as well as humor, or caprice of different opinions dad usually, that does not reflect didnya.
25. He's getting no attention to her children. Even children feel there is something wrong with their father.
26. He was like pulling away and away. But when you ask about it all, he did not want to talk about it.
27. He seemed not concentrate and did not show passion during lovemaking.
28. She always looks surprised or confused every morning. This is because the bed was not sure who she is awake.
29. You heard it delirious to name someone (a girl's name of course) more than once.
30. Your friends and family members often see the tension between you two, even long before you realize sendid.
31. He's very easy to feel "threatened" when you're wondering about some things to him, and feel like being interrogated.
32. Sleep pattern changes than usual, and looked troubled.
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